Sometimes it will be impossible to predict when things will improve, when the healing will occur, and when my suffering will subside. We knew that it was worse—that when we stop moving, the darkness will be overwhelming—but we had no idea what else to do. However, we can make a small circle of light as long as we do what we can, to the extent that we can. On the path we are on, it might only be sufficient to light up a few inches ahead, but it might be all we need or are capable of at the time.
Gradually, as we take step after step, the light will brighten and we will see our way.
There is an interesting and inspiring story to narrate , when a girl who was an undergrad in a prestigious college.
She was asked to share her college experiences on the final day before she graduated. She went to the stage and spoke to her fellow students about perspective and mindset. As she raised the glass of water, everyone assumed she was going to ask if the glass was half full or half empty, but she smiled and asked, "How heavy is this glass of water I am holding?
"In my opinion, the glass's exact weight is unimportant; it all depends on how long I hold it. Your worries, annoyances, and disappointments are similar to this glass of water; if you think about them and nothing significant occurs, think about it for a longer time , you begin to feel noticeable pain ,think about it whole , you will feel paralyzed, incapable of doing anything until you drop it.
We need to associate with people that inspire us , people that challenge you to rise up , those who make you a better and beautiful person , we must not waste our valuable time who are unproductive , adding to the fire and your destiny is important too, remind yourself that you will choose your destiny and have the ability to fight against all adversity, sorround yourself with people adding love and light, those who make you happy , not always try to impress them., associate with people of good quality, those whose souls are attracted to you in the same way as the flowers are attracted to sun, they will help you to grow.
It is time to A.C.T., acknowledge the need for change, clarify your vision, and take the time to do the work; life is too short to stay stuck where you don't belong; if we stay where we are, where we are stuck, where we are comfortable and safe, we die there. If you feel like you are stuck, desiring the job, the ideal relationship, and you end up spending so much on yourself, don't feel like you are in a cage, stuck with constant reminders from your inner critic that you are unworthy of success.
This Latin verse has also been translated as “Have patience and endure; this unhappiness will one day be beneficial.” Whether you call it pain or unhappiness, we will have many experiences in life that help us understand the lessons of life. Was there pain the first time you asked someone if they liked you, and they said “no?” If you endured the pain, you might have learned not to ask the question, or you might have learned to ask only when you already knew the answer.If there is a lack of patience, we will find it quite difficult to get to the place on the far side of the pain to get the perspective necessary to learn the lesson. Life is full of ups and downs; it is up to us to survive these things and to learn from all of them. The hardest may be the painful experiences, as there are many ways you can interpret the lesson. Be prepared to revisit and revise the lesson you learned when it is appropriate.
Remember you will always encounter obstacles in your life no matter what you do, you must be able to learn the lesson, be strong and be more resilient, the power lies within you, live life with passion and never stop dreaming.
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